LOSS OF FAMILY
1. fifty% of marriages finish in divorce that cuts a child's support system in 0.5 - one in four girls in abusive relationships.
2. Adult bullies: Mental abuse with place downs, insults, belittling, cursing, screaming and controlling without listening or guiding.
3. Physical abuse: hitting, whipping, slapping, kicking or sexual abuse of a child.
4. Bio-oldsters have authority to discipline and guide, not a stepparent, boyfriend or girlfriend.
5. Overly emotional girls (crying, pleading, begging) lose their authority with teens, especially boys.
6. Adults, who don't listen, send a message..."I do not care." Children become annoyed, lack vanity and might become socially isolated.
7. Neglect and abuse creates anger. Anger prevents emotional growth and a scarcity of self-awareness, that puts youth at risk.
8. Parents, who can't say NO, will expertise resentment, anger and disrespect. You taught your child to be selfish and self-absorbed!
9. The neglect of a kid's spirit: If adults fail to teach children about their awesome inner power and potential, children could not worth themselves or others.
10. Bullies are emotionally "off-center" with a wounded spirit: This kid uses intimidation and worry to achieve power and control over others... and to hide their pain.
11. Pincushion youngsters (victims) are emotionally "off-center" with a wounded spirit: Sensitive kids feel inadequate, suffer in silence and become simple targets. Bullies and victims are usually attracted to every other.
12. Bullies and "Pincushion kids" (victims) lack sturdy role models and a way of security. Sturdy "focused" adults listen and keep calm when disciplining and guiding children.
13. Youngsters lacking religious values and support don't discover a healthy balance between ego and spirit. Peers become their academics as they experiment with drugs, alcohol, sex or alternative self-damaging behaviors.
14. Youth, unable to cope or "match in," become disconnected from family, friends and feel alone. They are seemingly candidates to dropout of faculty, be part of gangs or become addicted to drugs. Some could even runaway and become homeless.
LOSS OF COMMUNITY
15. The loss of neighborhood support creates a lot of social isolation for families. Youth don't see neighbors as role models, mentors or problem solvers working along to keep their neighborhood safe for everyone.
16. Gangs, medication and violence become a life style for alienated youth. Gangs use fear to require over neighborhoods and become role models for children. Rival gangs kill for control. (Primitive ego-driven tribal behavior)
17. Violent movies, video games and TV reinforce the bully/victim behavior for disconnected youth. Sex and violence used to degrade and management women.
18. Simple access to drugs (escape from reality) and guns (power tool for the disconnected).
19. The religious community has lost influence with many of these days's families due to scandals, corruption and the sexual abuse of children.
20. Religion, the foundation of a free society, has neglected to succeed in out and "Love thy Neighbor." Operating together...the religious community has the power to bring neighbors together, become role models for youth and produce peaceful communities.
Each bully, delinquent, truant, abuse victim, drug dealer, gang member, and kid struggling to age with medicine or domestic violence lives in someone's neighborhood.
Author Resource:-
Jeff Hunt has been writing articles online for nearly 2 years now. Not only does this author specialize in self esteem, you can also check out his latest website about:
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